Spousal support? Are you kidding me??

Jack and Jill both met in university.  During their last two years of university, Jack and Jill moved in together and married a few months after graduation.  The couple were advancing in age and as Jack was making a decent salary that could support the family.  They then decided that Jill would stay home with the children until they were in school. But Jill never truly started her career.  She is working part-time for the local television station, which gives her time to attend to all of the children’s medical and extracurricular needs. Her annual income is not sufficient to be self-supporting. Jill is completely discouraged especially in this time of recession where no one is hiring and all of her friends are being laid-off.   Jill has been told by her lawyer that after 13 years of marriage she would most likely be entitled to spousal support.  Jack disagrees stating that it was Jill’s decision to stay home while he worked his butt off all these years to support the family. 

 
Unlike child support which is calculated according to a specific amount set out in the Federal Child Support Guidelines, spousal support is not set in stone.  If the parties disagree on the amount to be paid, or for how long, the court will be required to make a decision and they have much discretion in setting those parameters.  The following factors, among others, will be considered: 

- The number of years during which the parties have lived together;
- The parties’ respective income;
- Whether the couple still have dependent children;
- The parties' age as well as their physical and mental health;
- The parties’ standard of living during the relationship;
- The parties’ current assets and financial means, including what they are likely to earn in the future;
- The capacity of the recipient to contribute to his/her own support, by working or otherwise, and the amount of time it will take him/her to achieve self-sufficiency;
- The payer’s capacity to pay support; and
- Whether or not the recipient has helped the other spouse to build a career or a business.

 

In general, the duration of spousal support can vary from 0.5 to 1 year of support for each year the couple has cohabited together (note that it is the years of cohabitation that count, not the years of marriage).  In certain circumstances, such as when a couple has cohabited for more than 20 years, the support may be payable for an “indefinite” duration.  This means that the support will continue to be paid until an important change occurs (such as remarriage, retirement, important change in income, etc.).

The right to ask for spousal support is automatic for married couples. With regard to common law spouses, it varies from province to province.  In Ontario, you can only ask for spousal support if you have lived together for 3 years continuously, or if you have a child together and live in a relationship of some permanence. The same factors (as listed above) are relevant for married and common law couples.

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Child Support – Why should I support my wife’s shopping addiction?

Following many discussions, Jack and Jill have finally agreed for Jill to have the children in her primary care (equal to 70% of the time) and Jack, because of his work obligations and difficult schedule, will have them in his care every second weekend including one or two evenings in between (or 30% of the time).  As a result of this arrangement and because he earns a substantially higher income than Jill, Jack’s monthly child support payment will increase.  Jack is concerned about Jill’s love for shopping. While he financially supported it during the marriage, Jack is convinced that a good chunk of the child support he will pay will not be spent on the children. Jack spoke to colleagues at work who used all sorts of strategies to reduce their child support payments. He wonders whether he should have insisted to have the children 50% of the time and whether it was a good idea to accept the long-awaited promotion handed out to him at work, resulting in a higher income… and higher child support payments.

Both of these options are not advisable.  Firstly, a parent should never make parenting decisions based on financial considerations (i.e. with a view of reducing child support).  The court would readily see such a decision for what it is and the parent would lose credibility before the court (or a mediator).  Decision-making authorities assess parenting arrangements based on what is in the best interest of the children, and nothing else.  Rights and obligations regarding children are the same whether you are married or living in a common law relationship.

In the same way, it is a terrible idea for a parent to take steps to quit a well-paying job or to voluntarily reduce his/her annual income to avoid paying child support.  If a court finds that the payer parent has voluntarily reduced his/her income, it may impute an annual income that is greater than the one shown on the income tax return.  The amount of the imputed income will be based on what the court believes the payer parent has the capability to earn.  Following the court decision, that parent will be obligated to pay the higher basic child support amount imputed.  

Many payer parents are concerned with the way basic child support is being used by the recipient parent. While this may be frustrating in some circumstances, the payer parent has no control over the money once it has been paid to the recipient parent. What payers need to understand is that basic child support is not meant to cover strictly expenses that directly benefit the children themselves (such as food and clothing).  It also serves to cover expenses which benefit the children indirectly (although it also has the effect of benefitting the parent as well), such as the mortgage and utilities (for the home in which the children live), the car (which is used to travel them around) and, yes, even the brand new porch…

The payer parent should also keep in mind that in the Federal Child Support Guidelines, basic child support amounts vary for each Canadian provinces and territories and are set based on the amount that an individual parent, with a specific income, is expected to spend to provide for his/her children.   It is simple, the higher the income, the higher the child support amount will be.  Although a payer parent may feel that it would be « cheaper » not to pay child support and to have the children half the time instead, let’s remember that raising children is extremely expensive (many little things, which you may not think about, result in considerable costs when pulled together; haircuts, school lunches and activities, birthday parties, toys, personal care items and, yes, those LuLu Lemon pants…).  In the vast majority of cases, the basic child support amount will not be sufficient to cover that parent’s share of the children’s expenses (both direct and indirect) and the recipient parent will often have to modify his/her current standard of living to support the children financially.

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