Life insurance to secure child support: There’s no way I’m leaving you this money!

Since the separation, Jack has never stopped paying the monthly premiums for the life insurance policy that he and Jill bought during their marriage.  As there is no chance of reconciliation, Jack wonders whether he should stop paying for Jill’s portion of the monthly premiums.  After all, why isn’t Jill paying for her own premiums? Jack’s friend Dave also told him that he should immediately remove Jill’s name as the beneficiary of his insurance policy and put the children instead.

 

If Jack was well advised, he would do neither.  When parents separate and there are dependent children to care for, it is very important for both parents to maintain life insurance coverage sufficient to provide for the children should the unthinkable happen.  As long as the children remain dependant financially, both parents have a continued obligation to provide financial support –child support – whether they are paying it or receiving it.

In most cases, when a parent dies, the children move in full-time with the surviving parent who is left with having to financially support the children, without any financial contribution from the other parent, unless proper life insurance coverage is in place.  Even if the deceased parent has made a Will and named the minor children as beneficiaries of part or all of his or her estate, the reality is that it often takes months, if not years, for an estate to be administered and the gifts to be distributed.  Furthermore, the Will may prevent the children to have access to the money until they are 18 years of age or even older.  In the meanwhile, the surviving parent struggles and the children suffer unnecessarily. 

 

Here are some additional reasons why separated parents should maintain life insurance coverage naming the other parent as irrevocable beneficiary in trust for the children AT ALL TIMES:

1. If you die and have made no provisions for the other parent to receive money for the support of your children, the surviving parent may very well sue your Estate to obtain that support.  This is bound to delay the administration of your estate considerably, in addition to forcing your executors to engage significant legal fees to defend the action and settle the issue, leaving less money for the children in the end.

 

2. If your child is a minor at the time of your death, he or she will not be entitled to receive any monies directly (from your Will or your insurance policy).  The monies will have to be administered by the person you named as trustee for your children.   If no one was named, the monies will be administered by the Office of the Public Guardian (OPG), a governmental institution who will step in to administer your financial affairs and decide what is best for your children.

 

3. Having your ex-spouse as beneficiary in trust of the life insurance proceeds for your children with specific directions as to how the funds may be used by him or her, and what is to be done with any leftover once the children cease to be dependent, will insure that the monies are used properly for the benefit of your children.

 

4. Your children will have immediate access to funds to maintain their standard of living after you are gone.  They will be able to pursue their activities or schooling, and there will be no gap between the time of your death and the time they have access to the fund they need to pursue their daily life.

 

5. Proper life insurance simplifies the lives of everyone involved if one of the parents dies, and the cost to maintain relatively large amounts of temporary life insurance coverage is quite minimal - depending of course on your age and health condition. 

Making sure your children are provided for in the event of your death is a part of being a responsible and loving parent.