Why is the date of separation important?

Jill has made it quite clear that she did not want to continue to live with Jack in their family home and as a result, Jack has been looking at his options.  Jack knows that Jill has spoken to the bank and was pre-approved to purchase a new home, a move he clearly disagrees with. Jack is also getting extremely concerned about various withdrawals made by Jill against their joint line of credit without his knowledge or consent ($1,500 one week ago paid by cheque to “Albert & Albert Law”, $2,000 which was transferred  to her personal bank account and another $500 the destination of which he does not know).  Jack knows that these withdrawals will not bankrupt the family, but he sure disagrees with having to pay one half of Jill’s lawyer’s fees!

Are you having similar concerns?  If so, then it is essential for you to understand the concept of the “date of separation” and its importance in your divorce or separation.  In all Canadian provinces and territories, spouses have the right to ask that their family property be divided equally (or fairly, depending on the province or territory) between them.  Most provinces and territories confine this right to married people ONLY. As a result, if you are living in a common law relationship in one of those provinces, the rules concerning the division of your property will be different. What is important to remember is that in most Canadian jurisdictions (including in the province of Ontario), when you are married it is not the property itself that gets divided (in species), but rather its value.  What value do you use? In most provinces (including in the province of Ontario), the property subject to division is valued as of the date of the parties’ separation.  This means that in principle, whatever happens after the date of separation is irrelevant to determine each party’s entitlement to a share of the parties’ family property. 

Let us make it more simple. In the case of Jack and Jill, if Jack was to win one million dollars one day after the date of separation, he would not have to share it with Jill.  Similarly, if one week after the separation Jill was to take a $50,000 personal loan to purchase a brand new Mercedes, Jack would not be entitled to share the value of the Mercedes, but nor would he be liable for the $50,000 debt.  It is very important to keep in mind, however, that while Jack does not have to assume one half of Jill’s $50,000 debt, if Jill was to use the parties’ joint line of credit to purchase the car, Jack may become liable towards the bank for the entire amount.  When negotiating their settlement, Jill will have to account to Jack and reimburse him for any liability (i.e. debts and bank withdrawls) contracted by her after the date of the parties’ separation. 

How do we determine the date of separation?  The date of a couple’s separation is not the day the parties signed a separation agreement, nor the day that their divorce is granted.  The date of separation, in very simple terms, is the day that one of the spouses communicates to the other his or her intention to separate in a way that makes it clear that there is no possibility of reconciliation. For most couples, this date will be quite clear (in most cases one of the spouses moves out of the home that very day, or shortly thereafter), but for some other couples it will not be that clear and it will be a question of evidence if the spouses later cannot agree on a specific date.  Also remember that it is possible (and in fact very common) to be considered separated even if you continue to live under the same roof.